Day 4 Legacy
I have been having a hard time with this one.
Defined Legacy is what a person leaves behind once they die.
My children died when they were born how could they have left anything, except sadness? I didn't want to put sadness down as their Legacy.
Then I thought "that's not all they gave me"
My angels gave me things:
1.Joshua have me an understanding of people and how they react in a time of pure sadness and grief. Badly, most people react badly.
2. Faith and Hope restored my faith and hope in people. That there are people who care when your baby dies.
3. A broken heart this may seem really bad, but it's given me the understanding I needed to be there for other people when they are hurting.
4. The Ability to see what matters most. To see the big picture and know what is most important. And what is not, what can wait and what needs to be done now.
My 3 babies gave me all that. That is a pretty big Legacy.
It's amazing that when you really think about it, you can see just how much our babies taught us and gave us during their short lives here on earth. I really do believe that our babies have made a difference in the world and that their lives are just as meaningful and important as anyone else's.
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